THE MARRIAGE PHYSICAL A Game for you to Test your Marriage Vital Signs  Rate yourself on a scale of 0 to 10 for each of these   How much fun do you have with your spouse? How satisfactory is your sex life? How attracted are you to your spouse? How strong is your financial state? How important are your wedding vows to you? How close are you to achieving your marital dreams? How much do your trust your mate? Has marriage made you a better person? How easy is it for you to forgive your spouse? How frequently do you do things just to make your spouse happy?  TOTAL SCORE:___________   90 -100 Excellent physical, social, mental and spiritual shape!            70 – 89 Good Condition! Keep the fire going though! 50 – 70 With a little tweaking, your marriage will be envied by all? 30 – 50  Don’t give up. Time, good counsel and prayer work wonders! 0 – 30   Needs Resuscitation, but your marriage can come back to life!

FAMILY TIES A Game about the state of your household              What is your home really like? You (and your children) will discover interesting things about your home through this questionnaire! Each YES is worth 10 points! I really like having the children around the house/I really like having my parents around the house We eat together frequently We spend time together regularly I apologize to the children when I make mistakes/I apologize to my parents when I make mistakes I like being at home/with my family I make sure that I talk to my family members every day We talk to each other regularly about problems and also about our blessings We talk to each other with respect. Rudeness is rare Other people enjoy being with our family I understand the purpose of family, and the purpose of my family

WHAT HAVE I DONE FOR YOU LATELY? A Game about taking good care of your spouse!   Which of the following has your spouse done for you THIS MONTH? Each YES is worth 10 points!! Now take the test again, but this time replace each "He/she" with "I", and replace "me" with "him/her" and see how well you take care of your spouse! Each YES is still worth 10 points!!            He/she gave me a back rub         He/she took me out to my/our favorite place         He/she planned a getaway for us         He/she cleaned the home (including taking out the trash!)         He/she fixed dinner just for me        He/she surprised me with something special        He/she  fixed broken appliances in the home        He/she took care of matters pertaining to the children        He/she orchestrated a sizzling, hot, romantic night together        He/she remembered special dates in my life    Your Score: _______     Your Spouse's Scoare:_________